Parenting - Posted by Albert Wellsom on Friday, October 31, 2008 12:34 - 0 Comments

Negative Effects Of Homeschooling

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by Albert Wellsom

Homeschooling is becoming an increasingly popular option with many American families. Not only are you in full charge of the homeschool curriculum, you can even adjust it according to the needs of your child and completely forget about the trauma of attending a public school. Teaching your children at home can be accomplished several ways. There are three options: 1) Purchase a program from one of the homeschool curriculum providers, or buy used homeschool curriculum 2) Read to your child from great books, and explore the world together paying attention to what interests your child or 3) Design your own homeschool curriculum for free using the internet and the library. Teach your kids to get more organized. Award the kids for doing a good job.

However, are you aware of the major mental and social damage you can cause if you don’t make the right choices? Children need friends, usually, they meet their friends in school so take a child out of school and where will they meet potential play partners? Many children who are homeschooled are often the brunt of jokes about their parents being strange or are taunted because they may have a disorder that prevents them from attending school. Your child might be made fun of or picked on because he isn’t considered normal. You ought to take these problems seriously and solve them if your child attends college just like any other child.

Friendships with other children of a similar age must be found if they are homeschooled as they cannot be allowed to develop in isolation as this is unhealthy. The following tips will get you started towards placing your child on the track of a positive social life. The best place to start is your own environment and neighborhood? How many children of the same age as your child live around your home? Do you know their parents? If not, try to get going now. Seek out parents nearby and let them know you have a child that you’d like to set up a play date. Because you have started the process, it is also up to you to take the initiative of organizing a kid party and calling a clown perhaps. Invite all the local kids over, their parents and organize a ballgame, fishing, bowling, or any other activity that children enjoy - even offer to baby-sit.

Sporting activities offer the best opportunities where children bond with each other. Since they play together they also spend a lot of time building a bond, and you too get an opportunity to meet other parents. If your child has physical problems or would embarrass himself on a playing field, get them involved in activities like Boy/Girl Scouts or any other local organization for children.

Do not be so protective that homeschooling prevents your children from enjoying and learning about life outside their home. While it is good to protect your kid from the so-called evils of modern society, remember the child also needs exposure to things which other kids are exposed to. Already your kid is getting branded as a ‘funny’ kid and having problems to cope with it, can you imagine where it would land him in the social circle if he was clueless about TV shows, the latest bands or even the current kid fashion trends? Without any exposure to what the modern society is going through, your kid runs the risk of being treated like an outcast and would have a lot of problem relating to others.

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